I was listening to a podcast interview with Adam Robinson the other day and something he said really struck me.
He mentioned an epiphany that he got last year and that he converted in his new personal mantra.
“Learn to focus on the needs of others over needs of the self.”
This one thing helped him overcome depression and be more happy in life, but also more successful.
I think this could pretty well be the biggest secret to happiness in life. Continue reading
Systems beat goals anytime.
I’ve written before about systems and goals, but in this post, I will discuss the difference between the two.
I finally got around to start reading Scott Adams’ book ‘How to fail at anything and still win big‘. In this book, Scott writes about the benefits of having systems instead of only chasing goals without a system in place.
How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big – Scott Adams
And when I look closer to my own relative successes and my not so relative failures, I noticed that there was a system behind every success and a lack of system behind any failure. Continue reading
A false start
I started the idea challenge back in December 2015, but that time I failed to make it a habit. My last recording was early March 2016.
Until last week when I started reading a book by James Altucher and decided to include the idea challenge to my daily ritual (I will write about my daily rituals some other time).
What is the idea challenge?
The idea challenge is very simple. Every day write down 10 ideas. Let your mind go, there is no such thing as a bad idea (in this phase of the process).
Outliers , a book by Malcolm Gladwell, covers the world of “outliers”–the best and the brightest, the most famous and the most successful and answers the question: what makes high-achievers different?
The conclusion is that we pay too much attention to what successful people are like, and not enough attention to where they are from: their culture, their family, their generation, and the experiences of their upbringing.
This book is very interesting to see what is really needed to be successful. One of the observations early in the book is that talent is certainly not enough. In any field you need at least 10.000 hours of practice to master your field and become an outlier, no matter how smart or talented you are. But also luck plays an important part.
Last night I watched a documentary on Netflix called Tony Robbins: I Am Not Your Guru.
In the documentary we follow Tony Robbins during his yearly “Date With Destiny” seminar.
What starts like a typical American infomercial for a likewise typical American feel-good seminar takes a twist when we witness how lives are changed and saved with just a few questions.
Like the title says, Tony Robbins is not the guru that tells you how to live your lives. But he is a master in psychology that is able to ask the right questions and make people find the answers themselves to improve their lives.
There are more than a few inspiring moments in the documentary.